There comes the time when you start asking yourself if he really likes you and if he is ready to commit. It is never easy to understand what is going on in his head, and to tell you the truth, we will never really know how it works. However, here are 10 signs that he’s just not that into you.
1. He never calls or texts first
No, he does not have to always text you first because you are not in grade 5 anymore. However, he should take the lead, at first, if he really is into you. I mean if not now, then when? Women, if he never, I repeat, never, calls you or texts you back, then he really doesn’t want you.
2. He always gives excuses
Take this as a rule: if he wants to see you, he will find a way. If he is into you, he will find a solution, if not, he will make up an excuse. Stop wasting your time over a man who doesn’t make the effort to see you.
3. He constantly flirts with other girls in front of you
The man is trying to show you something here. This is one of the biggest proofs that you are just not that special to him. If he flirts with other girls in front of you, non-stop, then make it easier for both of you, and cut the story off.
4. He talks to you like you’re his ‘bro’
Don’t get me wrong. You do need to be his best friend, at times. However, if he treats you like his buddy with no further affection, then he is really not that into you.
5. He only talks to you when he needs something
You are supposed to be his woman, not his bank account, his secretary, or his personal assistant. If he only contacts you when he needs a favour, he’s not that into you.
6. He never looks you straight in the eyes
An easy way to find out if he likes you, is if he looks straight into your eyes and can hardly look away. It is well-known that a woman in love would look away, but a man in love would look straight into her pupils.
7. He wants to find you a man
It is very simple: if he wants to find you a man, then he doesn’t want you to be his woman. Do not try harder, because the fact that he is searching for you means that you are in the friend zone.
8. He never gets personal
A man who truly wants you, wants to know every detail about you, no matter how careless of a person he is. He wants to know your deepest secrets and have deep long talks with you. If he always avoids meaningful conversations, then he is not the one.
9. Your opinion matters
How can you know that he cares? Well, if he does, he will pay attention to what you tell him and how you think, and will take it into consideration. If he’s into you, then he’s also into your opinion.
10. His memory says it all
Some do not have good memories. However, no matter how much you forget, if you care about someone, you will remember the boring details. If he is into you, his memory will be stronger than ever. He will remember how you like to dress, your favourite band, and what you like to eat.
Relationships are still an unsolved mystery, and these 10 signs are not enough to understand how men’s brains work. However, they at least help. Always remember that if you are putting much more effort while he is playing around, then he is just not that into you.
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Yasmeena El Sabeh
Lebanese, 19 years old, Oxford summer school student (2011), Cambridge summer school student (2012), College Protestant Français graduate (2013), Double majoring in Journalism and Political Science, LAU Model Arab League journalist, reporter & social media coordinator, LAU Model United Nations public relations officer, Moderation & Justice Academy for Leaders trainer, London School of Journalism summer student (2014), Young Diplomats Forum London (2014), Shoutout UK correspondent, NooSoos accredited writer, NewYork Times talent community member, Writers Cafe writer, recently published in The Daily Star.
